International Trans Day of Remembrance

 

 

International Transgender Day of Remembrance

 

 

On November the 28th 1998, Rita Hester, a trans woman, was murdered in Allston, Massachusetts in the United States.

Rita Hester, Killed in November 1998, with no apparent motive.

Rita was brutally stabbed at least 20 times in the chest in her apartment by an unknown assailant. The motive for the attack remains a mystery. The killer did not take any of jewellery Rita had been wearing, and there were no signs of forced entry or anything stolen from her apartment.

Rita Hester's murder, like most murder cases involving trans people has still to be solved, and may never be solved.

In response to her murder, an outpouring of grief and anger led to a candlelit vigil held the following year in San Francisco by many of her friends and transgender activists.

This vigil inspired the "Remembering Our Dead" web project and in turn the International Transgender Day of Remembrance, held on the 20th of November each year.

Now in it's 12th Year the Transgender Day of Remembrance is set aside to remember those who have been killed due to hatred or prejudice because of their trans status.

Although not every person represented during the Day of Remembrance may have identified as being trans, each was a victim of violence based on hatred and/or bias against trans people.

The deaths of trans people based on hatred or prejudice are largely ignored in the media. Often, if reported at all, it would be found in a small article or column in a newspaper far from the front page.

Over the last decade, on average more than one trans person per month has died due to hate or prejudice, regardless of any other factors in their lives, and this trend shows no sign of slowing down, particularly in Central and South America where the killings of trans people have sharply increased.

Many of these murders are horrific in nature, from being shot in the head or continuously beaten, to being burned, or even beheaded. These are the kind of murders that should attract a great deal of attention, but rarely do. In fact, these horrendous killings are more commonly ignored by both the news reporting media and the authorities.

 

The Transgender Day of Remembrance serves several purposes.

It helps to raise public awareness of hate crimes against trans people, something that the media seems unwilling to do.

The Day of Remembrance allows us to publicly mourn and honour the lives of these victims of hate that would otherwise just be forgotten.

Through the events held on that day, we get the chance to express our feelings and to share our respect for people that have died in the face of indifference and hatred, a chance to stand together and remember together.

The Day of Remembrance also helps reminds people who are not trans, that trans people can be their sons, daughters, parents, friends, partners or lovers. They could be your work colleague, neighbour, the person standing next to you in the post office queue or the person sitting next to you on the bus. Just normal everyday people wishing to live their lives free from hatred, violence or abuse.

The Day of Remembrance also gives our allies a chance to step forward with us and for us to stand together, to remember those of us who have died by hatred and violence.

 

In recent years in the UK several trans people have died due to violence. These are the ones we do know about, although they will be many more that will not get the media coverage necessary.

 

Kellie Telesford, 17th November 2007

Kellie's body was found by police officers (who had been alerted by her friends, worried because they had not been able to contact her) at her home in South London on the 21st November 2007.

She had been strangled with a soft brown fur scarf.

Kellie Telesford, Trans Women killed in South London, 17th November 2007

Although a man was arrested for her murder, due to circumstances with evidence and a witnesses story he was found not guilty. The case is still open.

Andrea Waddell, 15th October, 2009.

Andrea's flat in Brighton had been set on fire although it was later determined that Andrea had been strangled before the fire was started.

Neil McMillan, 42, was found guilty and sentenced to 22 years for her killing.

Destiny Lauren, 5th November, 2009.

Destiny was found by police at her flat in Kentish Town in London in the early hours of the morning. She was taken to the Royal Free Hospital but later died. She had been strangled.

Destiny was 29 years old.

Leon Fyle was convicted of her murder, he was sentenced and told he will serve at least 21 years.

The Transgender Day of remembrance website shows as many of the recorded deaths that have been made known, but many more will pass by and not be seen.

A preliminary report for Transgender Europe and the Liminalis Trans Murder Monitoring project states that there have been more than 200 reported cases of trans people murdered from January 2008 to June 2009, which equates that on average a trans person is murdered somewhere in the world every three days. These however, are just the murders that we know about.

We also remember those that are driven to commit suicide due to violence and hatred shown towards them. Trans people have one of the highest rates of suicide in the world at around one in three attempts in the UK alone and many of these deaths are contributed to by violence and hatred from others being inflicted on them.

Any death through murder is unacceptable, being killed because of who you are is intolerable, Transphobia, like any other phobia such as racism, has the ability to kill... by openly challenging and making people aware of this only then can things change for the better.

To all trans people around the world who have sadly passed on in this way.....

We will never forget you.....

 

Transgender Day of Remembrance events are held in countries worldwide, on and around the 20th of November each year, with the number of events increasing.

For more information please visit the official International Transgender Day of Remembrance website at http://www.transgenderdor.org